Today was read article in woman magazine this article say it’s not easy to see positive thing from our BF / GF when they annoying. Even if they’re a great person, really uncomfortable / pleasant if there’s they behavior make you annoyed. They said, believe it or not, they annoying behaviors actually could change become quality which make you more care & love him. How? Use smart strategy. Let’s do & prove their theory.
I remember, things that you feel bad from them in fact have positive things. Knowing positive part from your BF / GF bad part make you feel happier with them. And it can make your relationship healthier. Also, once you can handle / surpass his annoying action, would be easier for you to do the same for the next.
Ok let’s prove it & let’s see what happen next. (This is just example, you can fill in with your own BF’s / GF’s annoyed behavior)
1. They Annoyed Behavior : He can’t express his feelings
Positive Part : He’s more logic and calm. I have place to express my emotion!
Use / Advantage : He’s response / opinion not from emotional reaction. This is making we have good / healthy discussion.
2. They Annoyed Behavior : Sometime i lost contact with him.
Positive Part : He is not possessive person, fully trust me. I can focus to do my activity or others.
Use / Advantage : I have more own time for my self, I could learn to control my longing to him, being wiser.
3. They Annoyed Behavior : He just carefulness / attentiveness only when just both of us. I feel he didn’t care about me when i’m not with me when I’m not with him or sometime in front of his friends.
Positive Part : I could teach him how to pleasing woman not just in bed but in feeling too.
Use / Advantage : We could learn to complete / fill up each other.
4. They Annoyed Behavior : He is super relax, too much, always last minute. Just spending, time mostly for DVD and sleeping at home.
Positive Part : He’s family guy, trusted, and very enjoyed the time when he with me.
Use / Advantage : Because of his strong character he will always beside me when I need
That’s the way he is. Love quote: if you want to make his annoying behavior better, try to always talk about his positive / good part not his weakness / bad part.